Popular culture

Popular culture seems to idolize a certain way of living. As I listened to “Pop That Pussy” by 2 Live Crew, I couldn’t help but notice the themes: open sex, partying hard, doing drugs, and living without limits. The message is clear—freedom means indulgence. In another one of their songs, “Banned in the USA,” the group pushes back against censorship, arguing that their lyrics are misunderstood and not meant to promote violence or disrespect toward women. They claim to be simply expressing pleasure and freedom in a new era, pushing against the morals of those who don’t understand—likely white, conservative America. Hearing those lyrics made me reflect on the current state of popular culture, especially from my perspective as a middle-class white guy in my early twenties. Today, in much of rap, movies, and TikTok, there’s this ever-present sense that to be “free” is to act on every desire. If you want to fuck, you fuck. If you want to do drugs, you do them. If you want to party and lose ...
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A life of mediocrity

I fear most, a life of mediocrity. Every decision I make leads back to this question: "Where am I leading my life to if I do this". Which often results in long, drawn out thinking that usually come down to last second decisions any way. 

Since I can remember I've thought this way. I never wanted to be like anyone I knew, everyone had flaws and didn't seem truly happy with their existence. I want to overcome every obstacle in my way and achieve what most can't. I've always felt like that is destined for me. That being said, it creates lots of anxiety when making decisions since every little detail has a mountain of pressure resting on it.

What I think I want:

- A good paying job

- An attractive wife/girlfriend

- A big social circle

- Meaningful relationships

- A meaningful career

- Sobriety from drugs and porn


I asked ChatGPT for advice. This is it's response, I kind of like it: 

Balancing ambition with self-compassion could help reduce the anxiety you experience in decision-making. It's important to remember that life is fluid, and no single decision determines the entirety of your journey.

Progress comes from the collective impact of small, intentional actions rather than any single monumental choice. This mindset shift can help reduce the pressure on each decision while still guiding you toward the life you envision.

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